Born and raised in the Tri-City area of Albany, NY, an athletic, talented young writer blossomed to become the young women you see today. Writing has always been a passion of mine but dance and running have always been my first loves. I am currently a freshman in college on a Track Scholarship and perusing my career to become a social worker. I'm very humble and down to earth.
I'm just Me!
"Only strong personalties can endure history, the weak ones extinguish from it, but a man/women, people must be big enough to admit their mistakes, as well as flaws, and be smart enough to profit from it and become a stronger person."
Unfortunately, the ideal man is difficult to find.
How do you know the perfect man anyway?
Can you tell by book, magazines, movies, radio.
What is it...?
Perfection is an ideal situation where everything is just the way it should be . . .
WRONG!
Maybe in a fairytale.
Now, as for myself,
I want a man who is strong, powerful, and dominant, yet have a sensitive side.
A man who is honest and blunt but always keeps my feelings at best interest.
My grams used to say:
"No man is worth your tears Nadina, but once you find one who is, he won't make you cry"
I'm starting to get what she meant.
I believe that God made woman beautiful and foolish; beautiful, that man might love her; and foolish, that she might love him.
Funny accusation right?
A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears.
What does that mean?
It mean a man what something beautiful and can fall in love instantly.
Men love and want beautiful things.
It's nature.
Women on the other hand,
Can be..."Persuaded"
A man can say anything from,"Your are my everything, My world, An Angel sent from heaven, an image made from the heavens"
To,
"I love You"
WHOA right?
Never really thought of it in those terms.
I feel the word,"Woman", was taken out of man; not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot; but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved.
Thats Ideal.
A man who knows that is an IDEAL MAN.
Everything and more.
An image made from the lord himself to bless me and show me that there is a MAN who is made for me.
My IDEAL Man!
For a women who is love
I leave you with this:
"If I never met you, I wouldn't like you. If I didn't like you, I wouldn't love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't miss you. But I did, I do, and I will"
I've always admire what I really don't understand. in other words, One who asks a question, is a fool for five minutes; on the other hand one who does not ask a question remains a fool forever. Make since right! I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end.
I've come to the conclusion that my heart, meaning, me caring for others, is my strength as well as my weakness. I stress myself out...for what? Hell I don't even know...smh I'm starting to think that love is the extremely if not the most difficult realization that something other than oneself is real...Funny huh...? You know my grams once told me: Falling in love with someone isn't always going to be easy There will be anger, tears and laughter but it's when you want to be together despite it all. That's when you truly love another... Idk its just something I was thinking about...
Tears... Tears are words the heart can't express... Words unspoken, unheard of, etc. For they are the words my lips whispered, but never so often misunderstood. Hears a secret... Ready... In the silence of night when I'm all alone in my room or where ever I am, I have often wished for just a few words of what I'm feeling and what I want. I'd rather not me heard to this point in my life... Rather than the fake applause of thousands of people who think that know what's going on. Feelings... Music is what feelings sound like. The drums represents the heart... The sweet sound of the flute flows like the vanes...and, The amazing sound of the saxophone to clear the mind like the brain Yes... Amazing isn't it My grams used to tell me I had great Strength of character Strength of character means the ability to overcome resentment against others, to hide hurt feelings, and to forgive quickly When all is said and done, We are part of each other. That's the way it was meant to be. People are brought together for a reason, Everything happens for a reason. I believe the reason that you and me, he and she us and them Were brought together was because we complete one another. We fill in each others missing spots with love excitement, joy, pain, sorrow, etc. If someday God decides to tear us apart, I trust that there is a reason. Cause if there is a reason for love, There is a reason for life beyond it. Just my thought I had a ruff hour...smh lol